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"The Best Ways to Develop a Lasting Relationship"

Conscious
Communication Series

Part 02
"Express Yourself
with Purpose"
February 2007

Part 01
"Dress to Express"
January 2007

"Are You AWAKE? Are you Here in the Present Moment, or Do you Feel Stressed Out, tired and exhausted??? Are You Chatting Away in Your Mind, or is Your Mind Clear, and Aware???"

"The Majority of People are NEVER HERE! Most People Talk to themselves in their Brains all day about everything and everyone"

"They Should be Experiencing the Moment, Using their Senses, moving Slowly and not rushing all the time, but instead they move around Autonomously, Continuously Thinking Non-Stop, Judging Everyone and Everything Possible!!!

"This is Why So Many People are STRESSED-OUT ALL THE TIME!"

"They Never Give their Brains a Break, and Instead, Use their Minds to Enjoy the Moment, which Quickly passes them by"

"Being in the Moment, investing your Time and Energy with the People you Love, is the "GLUE" that Holds the Bonds between, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife,
strong for Life!!!

"Learn to Be Aware, Clear and Fluidic. Don't Get Caught up in the 'Rat Race', Just Living Autonomously, continuously acting out roles, Programs in your brain. This is the Ego, your Personalities, and Social Conditioning."

"By Doing that, You'll be Able to Create the type of Lifestyle you want to live, and be able to capitalize on the events in your life to Maximize your Success, because you Know What's Going On Inside Yourself and Those Around You"

"Then, You'll have the Ability to Save your Relationships or Marriages, or Create the Lasting Relationships You Desire!!!"

If you want to have less stress, have a more clearer mind, breathe easily, feel confident, centered, focused, empowered, and be able to attract, manifest and create the kind of life you want, no matter how IMPOSSIBLE it may SEEM, then you MUST FIRST LEARN, How to USE YOUR MIND MORE, and your BRAIN LESS.

"WHAAAT????" You maybe thinking... "What's this guy talking about, and what's the difference, and What does this have to do with Relationships and Dating Anyways????"

Well first, let me tell you who I Am:

My name is David Anthony Vassell. Most people call me Dayv (Pronouced Dave, or Davie). What I am really getting at here is that, when you go to the very root of the problems with relationships and marriages today, it boils down to the People themselves and 'How they THINK', that determines whether their relationships with Work Out or Not!

People All see things differently. If you trust your husband or wife and you see them with another man on the street, what will determine how you'll act is whether you are a more 'trusting person', meaning you 'think and feel' trust towards people more than you would not!.

People often jump to conclusions, think the worst of situations, and act upon their negative or insecure, fear-based thoughts too often, instead of CHOOSING, WHAT THOUGHTS THEY WILL FOCUS THEIR ATTENTION ON!

"That's because they USE ONLY THEIR BRAINS TO THINK!!!"

If people were to choose their thoughts, they would be able to pick the thoughts that would help them get to what they REALLY WANTED, and NOT on those that would PREVENT them from achieving more Success in life.

For Example, take a guy who sees a really Beautiful and Attractive Woman sitting by herself in a coffee shop with a chair avaiable at her table in front of her, on the patio he is walking towards, facing her.

If he thinks to himself, "I'm going to go show her some love and brighten up her afternoon a little", that thought will make him feel more 'upbeat and alive', than if he was to think, "She looks like she wants to be alone, I better not go disturb her".

One thought has a positive outcome, the other a negative outcome. Your Thought create your Life, so if you choose a better thought to hold in your head, then you'll experience a better life, because you'll do the things you think about, whether they are Good or Bad!

"The Question is: How Do I PICK MY OWN THOUGHTS??? The Answer? By Think from Above your Brain, like picking what food you want to eat on your dinner plate, You THINK WITH YOUR MIND!!!

...And You Do this by Observing Your Thoughts, your Emotions, Your Egos or Personalities that you Think are Who You Really Are!!!

The Trick is, to be able to Be in the Present Moment, so your mind is Clear and you are Alert , Awake and Aware, so that when you see the Gorgeous Woman in front of you, you'll be clear-headed enough to pick the positive thoughts, and think positively so that you create that positive outcome. If you're too busy chatting away in your head, you'll MISS ALL THOSE WONDERFUL OPPORTUNITIES to Grow as a Individual, and Experience More that Life has to Offer You!

What I built this site for is for one simple reason, and that's to:

"Provide people the tools necessary to help them Become More Awake, More Conscious, so that they can create a better life for themselves and for the planet we live in, together as a whole!"

This Site is Dedicated to Helping people Achieve more Lasting Relationships and Marriages by providing a variety of Services to work with individuals or couples get to where they need to be.

dayv@datingfinesse.com

What-Is-Dating~Expanding Thought-Line

"Dating is the Gap between Friendship and Relationship. To create everlasting Friendships and Relationships, You Must Enter Your Place of inner Finesse and Flow. This is the center between Masculine and Feminine or
Yin and Yang."

"This inner multi-dimensional space is the only place that can grant you lasting, fulfilling success and contentment.

The Lack of Understand of the Ego, and how to Transcend it,
is the cause of All Failed Relationships and Marriages"

"By Being Conscious and Observing Your Egos or Personalities, you are in 'control' of the Body and Mind... "

"If you are in control of your Self, then all your energies will be efficiently used to create the life you desire, no matter what. You will realize that all problems we face are Illusions and Programs interwoven within reality, which can be altered, deleted or rewritten."

Send Your Questions and Comments to:

dayv@datingfinesse.com