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Part 02
"Express Yourself
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February 2007

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"Dress to Express"
January 2007

 

 

 


"
Let Your True Beauty Shine"

June 2007

What is true beauty?  Is it something that is physical or tangible?  Is it something you see, feel, smell, taste or even touch?  Or is it something beyond our physical senses, something deeper, beyond the veil of our minds that is to be discovered, to be acknowledged, to be praised, and appreciated?

What IS true beauty to you, personally?

Some may say that true beauty is the way a person looks, the beauty in their eyes, their facial structure, the softness and complexion of a person’s skin, the voluptuousness and curvaceousness of a persons silhouette.

Some may say it is the way a person speaks, the sound of their voice, the way they look at you when they smile, the way they move through the world, or the inner qualities that shine through, beyond and in greater magnitude than their physical beauty could ever radiate, the power of action, to do good, to give, to show and demonstrate a deep and strong character and spirit, someone living a life of purpose and meanings, living each moment to the fullest and finding deep inner peace, love and joy to the benefit of themselves and all those around them.

We live in a world that pays much tribute to physical attractiveness as if it were the only redeeming quality of being human, when in reality, until each person decides to look beyond outer beauty and allow their eyes to see the everlasting inner beauty that is within, no one will ever really know how beautiful each and every person is.  We would all look at each other differently, with a distinct reverence, awe and joy for the uniqueness and variety that is human.

To see a person as beautiful, is to acknowledge and accept everything that is good and radiant about that person, even when you don’t feel moved to, because true beauty shines beyond the limitations of physical beauty, finding its source from an beaming inner beauty, the person behind the face, the real you.

Attraction, that surge of emotion that sets off your skin tingling, starts from your perception of physical beauty and inner beauty, what true beauty is to you.  We all value different qualities and appreciate beautiful expressions of those qualities and aspects in other people.  To be able to take dating to the next level and establish an intimate relationship, you need to have an acute awareness of what constitutes beauty for you, so that you will be able to best see it in others. 

Now, to be able to fully perceive true beauty in others and in the world around you, first you need to have an acute awareness of your own beauty both inward and outward, realizing that your true beauty has its source from inside and shines through your physical beauty, so in reality the more beautiful you are on the inside the more beautiful you will be perceived on the outside.  Nothing can stop true beauty from manifesting itself, and once you have realized this and know your true beauty, it will shine and radiate for all to see, just as you see it in others.

Be Attractive.  Be Beautiful.  The power of letting your natural true beauty shine brightly is that it invokes true beauty in those around you, because you live your life as a human of true beauty, and those around you will be moved to let their own inner beauty shine. 

In that way true love can grow and flourish between a man and a woman in an intimate relationship, because they both know each others deepest beauty and have grown to love it just as they feel and know their own deepest inner beauty.  True love based on an appreciation, admiration and adoration of the each others true beauty.  The way it is supposed to be.

Allow your true deepest inner beauty to shine, let it radiate through you by living each moment as a person who within their very core, their very essence is true beauty.  If you know what true beauty is, and know what inner beauty is you, then consciously practice those aspects of your true beauty, and thinking that way, feeling that way, and act that way, realizing that each moment contains within it, the power to let your true beauty shine.

David Vassell

 


 

   
 
     

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