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The
Feature Articles
New Article "The
Best Ways to Develop a Lasting Relationship"
Conscious Communication Series
Part 02
"Express
Yourself with Purpose" February
2007 Part 01
"Dress
to Express" January 2007
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March 2006
What’s in a kiss? What is it about that one special
moment in time that drives people so wild? The soft brush of lips under the
umbrella of anticipation, quaking hearts desires to explode.
Imagine, you and lover have only actually been dating
each other for a couple weeks or months, but here in this instant an
eternity has been lived. You look up into their eyes with a longing only
seen in infancy. Eyes twinkle as they gaze back into your glowing
pupils. You smile back at them acceptingly, showing you’re longing for
your love. They then step closer to you, and with their smooth glide
they reach forward and touch your arm, just below the elbow. You can now
feel your pulse quicken by this soft brush, and your eyes fill with
slight moisture, giving you an iridescent glow.
They feel the heat of your body as your love nears you.
Their temperature rises from the expectation of your lips against
theirs. Heads tilt towards each other, and now with their chest against
yours, you can feel the steady rhythm of their breath sweeping over your
neck. You can’t help but feel your throat tighten up, as your lover
swallows all your inhibitions with their presence. Your lover says in a
low whisper, “I never imagined that being with you would feel this
wonderful,” as you smile at their endearing sentiment your heart pulses
with emotion. “I glad I’m with you too! I’m just glad were finally
together…”
You start moving closer, still looking into each
other’s eyes. The moment of inevitability seems to make time stand
still. The world drops away between you, and you are the only one’s
left. All worries of the day, all the misunderstandings of the past now
become meaningless. This is the affirmation of love shown, and spent
emotions, the beginning of your unique journey into what will become the
rest of your lives.
So near to each other now, with eyes closed, you can
feel the tenderness of their lips touching yours. They patiently lean in
awaiting triumph. Their lips now embrace yours, and your lips lock,
flooding each other with immobilizing sensation. Your lover presses in
closer and pulsing streams of desire course through your veins.
Dormant sensuality becomes more vivid and lustful with
each passing second. You suddenly feel the earth drop beneath your feet
and it is your love that keeps you standing. A day, a month, a year, it
doesn’t matter for now, you feel closer and more in tuned with each
other than ever before, living the illusion of many years passing.
You can see a house, a family, the joy of years lived
as if it was yesterday, and in your heart you have affirmed, yes, this
is the one for me, that special someone that I will share all of life’s
precious moments with.
Being in love is a beautiful thing. I’ve hoped you’ve
all had the pleasure of experiencing the joys of the first kiss, and
hopefully for some that has lead to a life-long partner. If not don’t
avail, you’re time will come. There is someone on this earth for
everyone, and finding that special person is just a matter of learning
how to attract someone to you.
Both men and women want a person who is attractive,
either physically or personality, who can look at the positive things in
life, and who is in control of their own reality. Someone who is
confident and isn’t needy. Also someone who is internally strong and
will still be there to support you throughout your life; allowing you to
do the same.
For those on the dating scene, to be successful at
dating and attracting a mate, it all starts from within. There are many
books and websites with tips and trick, techniques for getting a guy or
girl. But no trick will work effectively if you don’t understand the
opposite sex.
If you give a girl a compliment for example and you
have an air of neediness about you, or you try to impress her by talking
about your job, or how much money you make, etc, you’ve automatically
destroyed the possibility that she’ll be attracted to you, unless you’re
rich and she’s just looking to use you for your money.
If you work on your inner self, then virtually you can
say and do almost anything and it will work for you, because you
understand the simple rule which is "Communication is the key to the
heart and soul, and is the foundation of any relationship or human
interaction." It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it!
David Vassell
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