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"The Best Ways to Develop a Lasting Relationship"

Conscious
Communication Series

Part 02
"Express Yourself
with Purpose
"
February 2007

Part 01
"Dress to Express"
January 2007

 

 

 


"
First Kiss"

March 2006

What’s in a kiss? What is it about that one special moment in time that drives people so wild? The soft brush of lips under the umbrella of anticipation, quaking hearts desires to explode.

Imagine, you and lover have only actually been dating each other for a couple weeks or months, but here in this instant an eternity has been lived. You look up into their eyes with a longing only seen in infancy. Eyes twinkle as they gaze back into your glowing pupils. You smile back at them acceptingly, showing you’re longing for your love. They then step closer to you, and with their smooth glide they reach forward and touch your arm, just below the elbow. You can now feel your pulse quicken by this soft brush, and your eyes fill with slight moisture, giving you an iridescent glow.

They feel the heat of your body as your love nears you. Their temperature rises from the expectation of your lips against theirs. Heads tilt towards each other, and now with their chest against yours, you can feel the steady rhythm of their breath sweeping over your neck. You can’t help but feel your throat tighten up, as your lover swallows all your inhibitions with their presence. Your lover says in a low whisper, “I never imagined that being with you would feel this wonderful,” as you smile at their endearing sentiment your heart pulses with emotion. “I glad I’m with you too! I’m just glad were finally together…”

You start moving closer, still looking into each other’s eyes. The moment of inevitability seems to make time stand still. The world drops away between you, and you are the only one’s left. All worries of the day, all the misunderstandings of the past now become meaningless. This is the affirmation of love shown, and spent emotions, the beginning of your unique journey into what will become the rest of your lives.

So near to each other now, with eyes closed, you can feel the tenderness of their lips touching yours. They patiently lean in awaiting triumph. Their lips now embrace yours, and your lips lock, flooding each other with immobilizing sensation. Your lover presses in closer and pulsing streams of desire course through your veins.

Dormant sensuality becomes more vivid and lustful with each passing second. You suddenly feel the earth drop beneath your feet and it is your love that keeps you standing. A day, a month, a year, it doesn’t matter for now, you feel closer and more in tuned with each other than ever before, living the illusion of many years passing.

You can see a house, a family, the joy of years lived as if it was yesterday, and in your heart you have affirmed, yes, this is the one for me, that special someone that I will share all of life’s precious moments with.

Being in love is a beautiful thing. I’ve hoped you’ve all had the pleasure of experiencing the joys of the first kiss, and hopefully for some that has lead to a life-long partner. If not don’t avail, you’re time will come. There is someone on this earth for everyone, and finding that special person is just a matter of learning how to attract someone to you.

Both men and women want a person who is attractive, either physically or personality, who can look at the positive things in life, and who is in control of their own reality. Someone who is confident and isn’t needy. Also someone who is internally strong and will still be there to support you throughout your life; allowing you to do the same.

For those on the dating scene, to be successful at dating and attracting a mate, it all starts from within. There are many books and websites with tips and trick, techniques for getting a guy or girl. But no trick will work effectively if you don’t understand the opposite sex.

If you give a girl a compliment for example and you have an air of neediness about you, or you try to impress her by talking about your job, or how much money you make, etc, you’ve automatically destroyed the possibility that she’ll be attracted to you, unless you’re rich and she’s just looking to use you for your money.

If you work on your inner self, then virtually you can say and do almost anything and it will work for you, because you understand the simple rule which is "Communication is the key to the heart and soul, and is the foundation of any relationship or human interaction." It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it!

David Vassell

 


 

   
 
     

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